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Miley Cyrus Birthday Comments a Search for Significance?

miley cyrusFormer Disney star, Miley Cyrus is getting a lot of attention these days, but not all attention is good. Psychiatrist Carole Lieberman, the author of “Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets,” counts herself as one who thinks Cyrus is playing with fire…“She is on a slippery slope and no one seems to be paying attention except the media. Not her parents, nor her managers, nor anyone else. In fact, these dalliances with drugs seem to be Miley’s sad way of getting attention.”

Can someone be a star and feel insignificant?  Yes, anyone can feel lonely, shy or withdrawn. The stage persona many put on while in public does not mean that they have found something worth living for.  Miley Cyrus appears to be crying out for help, but her cries seem to be falling on deaf ears. If she cannot find a sense of purpose, it is likely that she will continue to self-destruct.

Many people can feel insignificant and cry out for attention.  In a day when so many people find fame and fortune, others are left disenfranchised, and looking for acceptance.  Feelings of insignificance can destroy us too. Unless we live in the spotlight, few will notice, but the battle for significance has caused many people to do foolish things in order to find acceptance.

How can you live life with purpose? How can you find significance?  It begins by acknowledging that you not an accident that happened. Your life was designed by God. He created you to be valued and fulfilled. If you do not feel those things today, it is possible that you need a relationship with Jesus Christ. He can give you a life with meaning.

It all begins with a prayer: “Dear Jesus, I am sorry for the things I have done wrong. I know I was created for a purpose, but I feel so insignificant today. I want love and friendship, but I just keep making mistakes. Please accept me as Your own and I will make you Lord and Savior of my life. In Jesus’ name.,Amen!”

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-Bill Hennessy

 

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Insignificance Can Be Overcome!

Many people feel insignificant. They battle with loneliness. They feel shy and withdrawn.  They wish they had something worth living for, but seem to miss the purpose of life.

Other people seem to live life with meaning. They are driven by a sense of purpose.  They seem full of life.

If you battle insignificance you may wonder if there is a way to live life with a purpose.  Perhaps you are tired of being lonely. You can move from insignificance to significance!

Jesus declared that He came to give you life, abundant life.  He understands the pain of rejection because He was rejected by all of mankind. He also knows that you were designed with a purpose in mind. God created you to have friendship with Him.

Developing your friendship with God provides you a life with purpose.  Instead of feeling withdrawn and shy, you learn to trust Jesus and find strength in your relationship with Him.  Instead of being lonely, you can cry out to Jesus with every concern or worry.  He is a faithful friend.

Having a life with meaning is possible. You were born to experience a vibrant relationship with God.  He can restore your hope for the future and He can salvage your past.   It begins with a simple prayer.

Ask God to forgive you for whatever wrongs you have done. Ask Him to become Lord and Savior of your life. Surrender to Him and ask Him to live in you.  He will listen and give you a new life. If you want to move from a sense of insignificance to a life of purpose, pray to Jesus today!

- Bill Hennessy

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Battling Insignificance

Most everyone longs for a sense of purpose and acceptance. If these things are missing, people often battle for significance.   That’s because we long for something worth living for.  We want a sense of purpose.  We want to know that our lives count for something bigger than ourselves.

Those who battle a sense of insignificance are often unaware that they are created in the image of God. They can feel shy and withdrawn, fighting loneliness at every level. That’s unfortunate, because Jesus Christ came to give us life, abundant life.

Finding a sense of purpose isn’t difficult. Since we are created in God’s image, it is logical that He has a design for our lives.  Identify that design and you can live a life with meaning.  Living life with a purpose is the one sure way to battle insignificance.  Being lonely is a sure sign that you have missed God’s purpose in your life, because God wants each of us to engage others and offer them the same purpose of life we found.

If you have battled with insignificance, take the important step of giving it to Jesus Christ. Ask Him to forgive you for the things you have done wrong and ask Him to give you a new identity in Him. As you begin to follow Him, He will answer you and give you a life with meaning and purpose!

There are millions of lonely people in our world.  Like you, they are created in God’s image.  Like you, they can be full of life as they discover life with a purpose.  God’s design for your life is that you discover a relationship with Him and offer that same kind of relationship to others.  When you do, you will find your feelings of insignificance will be replaced with a joy that only God can give.

- Bill Hennessy

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Overcoming Insignficance

 

Do you remember the phrase, “Shrinking Violet?”  It referred to someone who was shy, someone withdrawn, and someone who battled with a sense of insignificance. If you feel that way, you already know that being lonely can shape your life in a way that prevents you from living life with purpose.

A great first step is to determine the purpose of life.  If you believe that you are an accident, if you believe that you have no say about your place in the world, you will be lonely and shrink from others who reach out to you.  Life with meaning is possible!  You can live life with a purpose!

You have probably noticed that some people seem full of life.  They seem to have an outlook on life that is quite different from yours.  I have observed that those who understand their purpose, those who are full of life, those who overcome loneliness, find their value in a relationship with Jesus Christ.

Jesus understands what it means to be lonely.  On the night he was arrested, he was deserted by nearly everyone He loved.  His loneliness didn’t stop Him from taking our place on the cross.  He went to the cross to make a way for you and me to live a live with purpose.  His sacrifice is what empowers us to overcome our own insignificance and find something worth living for. His death and resurrection can provide your life with meaning, but first, you need to acknowledge what He did on your behalf.

Perhaps it is time you take the next step toward overcoming your own sense of insignificance and ask Jesus to forgive you and give you a sense of purpose. Just talk to Jesus. He is willing to listen and forgive. He is willing to help you overcome your loneliness and live life with significance.

-Bill Hennessy

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Discovering Purpose

 

Have you ever thought about the purpose of life?  It’s a popular topic today.  Living life with meaning is not simple.   So many people have so many conflicting ideas about life’s meaning that you might have given up entirely on finding purpose.

 When you live a life without purpose, feelings of insignificance can invade your world.  You might even wonder if life is worth the living. Often, Loneliness becomes your most consistent companion. When you do meet people who are full of life, it hurts to the very core of your life. You might even ask if you will ever stop being lonely.

When people live life with a purpose, they seem to have a hope within that cannot be dampened.  They don’t seem to struggle with being lonely.  You might wonder, “What is their secret?”  “How can they seem so happy, so directed?”  There must be an internal compass that guides them.  You couldn’t be more right!

The people I know who have found the purpose of life met the creator of life itself!  God offers each of us the opportunity to live life with a purpose that will help us overcome loneliness and begin each new day full of life. The key is asking God to change your life once and for all.  

Asking Jesus Christ to be your Lord and Savior not only provides you with forgiveness, it offers you a life with a purpose.  As you walk with Christ, you can overcome insignificance and feel full of life again.  Perhaps it is time for you to make that commitment and live a life with meaning. 

- Bill Hennessy
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Purpose Overcomes Insignficance

Have you noticed that most people want to live life with a purpose? Countless books are written on the topic, songs are sung and many people constantly chase the dream of a purposeful life without even knowing what they want.  It can be very frustrating!

Finding a true purpose is possible.  The Bible tells us that we are important to God. In fact, God tells us that we are made in His image. He gave us unique Identities that allow us all to live happy and fulfilled lives. Read God’s Word and you will discover that the purpose of life is to live in relationship with God and others.

So, why are so many people living in frustration?

Perhaps it is because so many people wrestle with loneliness.  Other people seem so full of life. They often appear to have good things happen to them without even trying. If you are lonely, it might seem that no matter how hard you try, the things you want are always just out of your reach. There is only one sure solution to being lonely- help others. I’ve never met a person who didn’t grow personally when helping another person!

Living life with meaning begins by loving God but really blossoms when we love people.  When we work to help other’s succeed and find happiness, we will often discover the purpose of life for ourselves. If you do not invest in other people, you will always battle with insignificance. Why not begin today?

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