Category Archives: Falsehood

Chemotherapy Burned Away Self-Hatred

Eve Ensler

Eve Ensler was physically and sexually abused by her father while growing up. This drove her to become an activist and playwright. She gained a very controversial yet monumental role in women’s rights.

She has spent most of her life talking, listening, traveling the world, helping women. Ensler met women who were raped in Bosnia, cut in Kenya, destroyed in Afghanistan. She used the very thing that had broken her to encourage women. She urged them not to become bound by the awful things that happened.

While she is a controversial activist and playwright Ensler carries another title proudly: cancer survivor. Eve was diagnosed with uterine cancer. Three days later she had a nine-hour operation. She lost many organs and nodes. It was a life changing event.

It was through her illness that she began to experience true healing. According to an interview she had on the Today Show, “For years I carried around such darkness, such sorrow, such self-hatred. When I would sit with the port and five hours of chemotherapy juice would go into my body I would visualize it burning away.”

Ensler challenged women to respect their bodies no matter what society says. She struggled with the same insecurities as the women she encountered all over the world. She disassociated herself from her violated body. She felt ashamed of what had happened to her.

She also believed the lies of western society that define beauty and determines what a woman is expected to look like. Who would have thought that her diagnosis of cancer would become the wake up she needed all along?

Armed with this new self-awareness and love for her life she has been able to more effectively communicate with women. Eve has been able to help women overcome obstacles.

These women learn how to begin rebuilding their life. This is a broken world filled with broken people who hope for wholeness.

There is hope. Jesus Christ, God’s Son, came to give each of us the opportunity to begin again. He took the pain of our failures on His shoulders. He bore the pain of our brokenness on His back. He is willing to give you new life and new hope.

It begins with a simple prayer: “Dear Jesus, I am sorry for the wrong things I have done. I am broken and need healing. I am tired of the pain life dealt me. Please give me new life as I declare You to be Lord and Savior of my life. In Jesus’ name, amen!”

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-Catherine Anderson

 

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Kim Kardashian Divorces Kris Humphries After 72 Days

Kim Kardashian cited “Irreconcilable differences” when she filed divorce papers after just 72 days of marriage to basketball player Kris Humphries. Many accuse the reality star of marrying Humphries as a publicity stunt to sell coverage of her $10,000,000 wedding. Read More  

Did Kardashian deceive the public? Was her marriage based on truth?  We may never know, but we do know she broke her promise about remaining remaining with Kris "til death do us part."

One thing is certain; many people have been deceived by those who profit by lies.  In marriage, trust is foundational. When that trust is broken, one or both partners begin to focus on the problems in their marriage, not the strengths.  If you have been deceived you know that even “small lies” hurt deeply. You want truthful relationships. You know that falsehood, no matter how well intended, leads to suspicion and anger.  

Most deceptions are built on a kind of relativism that teaches that some lies are less painful than the absolute truth. It really speaks poorly of the person lied to because it presumes he cannot deal with the truth. But can being untruthful really lead to a good end? 

Trusting relationships are built on truth.  Unfortunately, many believe that small lies spare another’s feelings. But, if you’ve been hurt by lies, you know that being lied to creates distrust. If you have told lies, no matter how good your intentions were, you know that you hurt the person you lied to.

Can someone learn to walk in truth? Can you put aside your deceptive ways and create relationships built on truth? Yes!  Jesus Christ offers you the chance to build truthful and caring relationships but you must surrender your tendencies to deceive others to Him.  If you need to start again, why not pray this prayer? 

“Dear Jesus, I am sorry for the wrongs I have done. I want to be truthful and I need Your help. Please forgive me and become Lord and Savior of my life so I can build lasting relationships that are free from lies. In Jesus’ name. Amen!”

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-Bill Hennessy

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No Little Lies

No one wants to be deceivedLies hurt.  Being deceived makes us feel foolish. Even small lies create large wounds.  What makes people fear the truth so much that they resort to telling lies?

Sometimes it is a question of relativism.  People believe that absolute truth is too painful to communicate.  They want to somehow soften the blow.  But, falsehood is falsehood.  Even if the motive is pure, the outcome is that they lied. Lying never solves problems, it creates them.

If you have been deceived, you already know how deeply lies can wound you.  One lie builds on another and soon trust is broken.  Can trust be restored?

God places a high value on truth. His Word is truth. His Son, Jesus is called the Truth.  Jesus came so that we might discover a truth so powerful that deception would never ensnare us again!  He came to rid us of the harm done by lies and give us the potential to create loving and trusting relationships. The result is that we can overcome the pain of past deceptions and walk in truth.

If you want that kind of relationship with people, you should begin by creating a relationship with God.  He can lead you into truth.  Simply pray to God and ask Him to forgive whatever lies you have told, whatever wrongs you may have done and give you a new beginning. Jesus will be faithful to hear you and offer you new life. If you have been hurt by lies, turn your life over to Jesus. He will give you the truth and the truth will set you free.

-Bill Hennessy
 

The Truth about Lies

 

Lies hurt.  If you have been deceived, you know the pain of lies.  Oddly, people are more afraid of telling us the absolute truth than they are about lying. If you are tired of being lied to, read on…

Relativism makes telling lies more acceptable every day. The truth is that falsehood hurts! Even a “small” lie can destroy a life. Small lies create big problems.

Today, I heard about a Hollywood couple respond to newspaper articles suggesting that their marriage was about to end. The couple was forced to defend themselves against lies in the press that threatened their family.   Often, we are being deceived by people who place no value on truth.

Where can we go to find healing from all these lies?  God offers us a relationship built on truth that has stood the test of time. Jesus said: “I am the Way, the truth and the life. No man comes to the Father except by Me.” (John 14:6)

When we begin a relationship with Jesus Christ, we learn the value God places on truth. We also learn that God sets a higher standard for us.  He wants us to avoid falsehood and communicate absolute truth.

Perhaps you need to begin a relationship with Jesus Christ today. You’ve been hurt by lies, but still lie to others.  You can have that new life today. It is simple. Confess the wrongs you have done to God, ask Him for a new beginning and He will forgive you. You can begin to live in God’s truth today.

- Bill Hennessy

Even Little Lies Hurt

No one likes being deceived.  Oddly though, almost everyone falls short of telling the absolute truth.  Lies hurt.  Today, we hear that well-intentioned lies can be good things. Relativism teaches that if a lie is told to spare another person’s feelings it is okay.

As I was growing up, I believed that telling a lie was acceptable if it spared the other person pain.  But being lied to hurts!  Unfortunately, small lies almost always lead to bigger lies and those lead to broken relationships.  I soon learned that unless a relationship is based in truth, it cannot last.

If someone you trusted lied to you, the pain is very real. Can it be healed? Yes!

Jesus Christ offers healing for all of the emotional wounds people bring to him. It may not always be a fast process, but he offers genuine healing.  He knows the pain of being lied to and being lied about. Those who accused him before his crucifixion lied about him too.  He bore the price of each lie on his own shoulders.

He is willing to take your pain as well.  He will not lie to you. He will tell you the absolute truth about yourself and offer you not only healing for the wounds you suffered at the hands of others, but forgiveness for the pain you may have caused.

In a world filled with relativism, where falsehood is often valued more than absolute truth, Jesus brings truth, forgiveness and healing.

-Bill Hennessy

Finding Truth

No one enjoys being lied to.  We value truth.  The question we might ask ourselves is whether we speak the truth ourselves.  Is it possible that we use lies too?  Relativism teaches us that is okay to lie if our falsehood spares the other person’s feelings.  Sounds noble right?

Soon though, that same relativism leads to lying to spare our feelings as well.  We lose sight of absolute truth as we protect our own faults with more and more lies. It’s a real problem for most people.

God values the truth, the absolute truth.  We argue with Him about this, trying to suggest that falsehood and lies serve a purpose.  Jesus spoke the absolute truth in order to offer us absolute freedom.  Our relativism hasn’t worked well for us, so He challenges us to begin anew and offers us the way to start over.

Jesus Christ was convicted and sentenced to death by religious people who used deception and lies to accomplish their purposes.  What is amazing is that Jesus allowed it to happen so that through His death we might find new life.  Why not receive the gift of salvation He offers you today and trade your falsehood for His absolute truth.

-Bill Hennessy
 

Hurt By Lies

 

“You lied to me!” These words cut to the heart every time we hear them. They tell of hurt, betrayal and loss of relationship.  Falsehood hurts everyone it touches.

Being lied to is one of the most hurtful human experiences anyone can experience.   No one likes being deceived.  Unfortunately, it happens every day.  The world we live in not only accepts lying as a common practice, it encourages little lies if it “spares” someone’s feelings.

Relativism is the name that is given to questionable actions that attempt to “do good” or reduce the pain another might feel if the truth were told.  Do we really spare another person pain when we tell lies or is it our pain we want to avoid?

The absolute truth is sometimes painful, but not nearly as painful as discovering that someone we trusted, someone we thought was honest, lied to us. If you’ve been hurt by lies, it might make you less trusting of others.  It’s understandable, but lack of trust will eventually destroy our ability to befriend others.

God offers healing when people have lied to us.  He promises forgiveness if we are the ones who lied.  When Jesus died on the cross, He took our sin on His own shoulders so that even though we have been hurt, even though we have hurt others, we can find forgiveness and healing.

Have you started your journey toward healing?  Be honest with God today and start a new relationship with Jesus based on trust.